Hi, my name is Arjun Malhotra, and I’m the founder of The Modern Gentleman’s Approach Guide — a calm, respectful confidence system designed specifically for Indian college men.

Over the past few years, I’ve personally gone from being the guy who froze, overthought, and walked away in public college settings to someone who can approach calmly, build genuine connections, and maintain stable, healthy relationships — without pickup lines or fake confidence.

I didn’t learn this from books or internet theory.
I learned it through real-world experience, mistakes, and uncomfortable growth — in the exact environments you’re in right now.

As I started sharing what worked for me, I noticed something interesting.
I kept getting asked the same question again and again:

"How do I approach without feeling creepy, nervous, or embarrassed in public?"

That question led me to a bigger mission — to help respectful, self-aware Indian college men stop shying away from moments they care about and build confidence in a way that feels natural, dignified, and true to who they are.

I’m now on a mission to help more men do the same — replacing hesitation with calm action, and regret with self-trust.